it wasnt complicated! it was over rated, sad, slow and not funny. real divorced women dont sleep with their X after a 20yr marriage and the spouse cheats! come on! All of the kids were way too old to be cryin about a divorce after 10 yrs! the writer Nancy heard one story where this actually happen to a woman and ran with it, so it didnt work! Love Merrryl and Alec but should have been funnier!