I had read the book, my friend had not! She was totally mesmerized by this movie, and its underlying messages. She said it seemed to touch on most of the life experiences and lessons learned in her own life! I thought the movie did a good job of capturing the emotional power of the book for many women. The time flew by, the scenery was spectacular, and Julia Roberts is delightful and charming, as always. I can understand how many men might not care for this movie, as the only real "male hero" shows "uncharacteristic" emotional sensitivity, but that's what the women love about him!