As a gay man it is good to see mainstream movies deal with the realities of same sex couples. At the same time, there is no way in the world a movie would have been made featuring 2 men. Plus to apease the masses, of course she had an affair with a man! But on the whole, no make-up, pimples on butts, and the actors bravely showing their flaws, I was impressed. And if Annette Bening doesn't get an oscar nod I will be surprised...