The "pros" are: Beautiful scenery, sweet relationship between two older people in the movie, some of the decisions made by the younger people are noteworthy: good choice to break off an engagement with someone before you get married if you sense the person is not the one you are to marry, adapting a response to the grandmother based on her desire to follow through with something shows respect to her and the sacrifice of time and effort on the grandson's part to travel with his grandmother; the choice to communicate what you are thinking and feeling rather than just assume something was taught through the scene of "assuming" he was with an old girlfriend by the same name as a cousin. The "cons" are: The moral standards of the younger people: "pre-honeymoon", "kissing another guy while engaged to another, too much cleveage showing!!!; Also, while the protective nature of the grandson is admirable, the manner in which he deals with his disappointment is rude and disrespectful; The "flipping the middle finger" scene was really not necessary and degrading. This was a good movie to talk about life lessons with the teenage girls we took to the movie.